9 साल के रिश्ते में आई दरार, शिखऱ धवन और पत्नी आयशा का हुआ तालाक…

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shikhar dhawan divorce
shikhar dhawan divorce

नई दिल्ली: बीते लंबे समय से शिखर धवन और उनकी पत्नी आयशा के बीच खटपट की खबरें समय-समय पर आती रहती थी। दोनों ने एक-दूसरे को सोशल मीडिया पर अनफॉलो भी कर दिया था। अब इन अफवाहों पर आयशा की उस पोस्ट ने मुहर लगा दी, जो उन्होंने एक दिन पहले इंस्टाग्राम पर शेयर की। दोनों का सात साल का एक बेटा भी है, जिसका नाम जोरावर है। पहले पति से आयशा की दो बेटियां हैं। साल 2012 में शादी करने वाले भारतीय क्रिकेट स्टार शिखर धवन का तलाक हो गया। सोशल मीडिया पोस्ट की माने तो आयशा मुखर्जी की दूसरी शादी भी टूट गई।


I THOUGHT DIVORCE WAS A DIRTY WORD UNTIL I BECAME A 2 TIME DIVORCEE.

Funny how words can have such powerful meanings and associations. I experienced this first hand as a divorcee. The first time I went through a divorce I was soooooooo fu@kn scared. I felt like I had failed and I was doing something so wrong at that time.

I felt as if I had let everyone down and even felt selfish. I felt that I was letting my parents down, I felt that I was letting my children down and even to some extent I felt as if I was letting God down. Divorce was such a dirty word.

So now imagine, I have to go through it a second time. Woooahhhhhh. That is terrifying. Being divorced once before already, felt like I had more at stake the second time round. I had more to prove. So when my second marriage broke down it was really scary. All the feelings I felt when I went through it the first time came flooding in. Fear, failure and disappointment x 100. What does this mean for me? How does this define me and my relationship to marriage?

Well, once I went through the necessary actions and emotions of what had happened I was able to sit with myself and see that I was fine, I was actually doing great, even noticed my fear had totally disappeared. The remarkable thing is I actually felt much more empowered. I realised my fear and the meaning I gave to the word divorce was my own doing.

So, once I realised this I started to redefine the word and the experience of divorce according to the way I wanted to see it and experience it.

❤️Divorce means choosing myself and not settling and sacrificing my own life for the sake of a marriage

❤️Divorce means even though you do your best and try your best things sometimes do not work out and that’s ok

❤️Divorce means I have had amazing relationships that have taught me great lessons to carry forward in new relationships

❤️Divorce means I am stronger and more resilient than I ever thought

❤️Divorce really means whatever meaning you give to it.

If you’re struggling with divorce or scared to end a relationship based on being labelled a divorcee then dm ‘divorce’ and book in a Vision Call with me to work 1:1

आयशा ने अपनी पोस्ट पर लिखा ““मजेदार है कि कैसे शब्दों के इतने शक्तिशाली अर्थ और जुड़ाव हो सकते हैं। मैंने तलाकशुदा के रूप में इस पहले हाथ का अनुभव किया। पहली बार जब मैं तलाक से गुज़री तो मैं बहुत डरी हुई थी। मुझे लगा जैसे मैं असफल हो गई हूं और मैं उस समय कुछ गलत कर रही थी, मुझे ऐसा लगा जैसे मैंने सभी को नीचा दिखाया है और यहाँ तक कि स्वार्थी भी महसूस किया है। मुझे लगा कि मैं अपने माता-पिता को निराश कर रहा हूं, मुझे लगा कि मैं अपने बच्चों को निराश कर रहा हूं और यहां तक कि कुछ हद तक मुझे ऐसा लगा जैसे मैं भगवान को निराश कर रहा हूं। तलाक इतना गंदा शब्द था, ”

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